Wednesday 2 July 2014

Beggars; to give or not to give? 1.

Mark Tully was asked one how he stood the poverty in India. He answered that he didn’t have to stand it, it was the poor who had to put up with it. This is the only sensible way to face down the guilt which can creep up on you as you sweep past those whose lives are fettered by the need to earn their paltry 100 rupees a day when you have thousands of rupees to spend on just a fortnight. Conscience stalks you all the time in India and our consciences should have been heavier than most. We were encouraging people to use up the planet’s resources to visit one of the poorest places in the developing world cocooned in the luxury we probably did not experience at home.
How did we appear to the people we met on our journeys? Did they resent the fact that, as previous colonial masters, we were coming back to see the results of our handiwork? It seemed not. Everywhere we went we were greeted with curiosity and no animosity. Well, accepting that I did not actually repress anyone a hundred years ago, why should I be blamed? We were often told that the English gave India its two most worthwhile things, the railways and education. This might have been stretching a point in Kerala, but we had left the already liberal education system in good shape. The Civil Service was also beloved of Indians with its clearly defined routes into prosperity and its jobs for life.
On reflection, did I resent the super-rich who had taken over the London I used to live in, the Russians and Chinese, who bought homes and visited them rarely, if at all? I did not. On the rare occasions on which I rubbed shoulders with those with substantially more resources than myself I found them wanting in their intellectual and spiritual lives. Accepting that I was a complete snob, I was happy to play the game with those who wanted to travel to India in a sanitised, smell-free, voyeuristic bubble. I was more sympathetic towards those who wanted the India experience but who were worried about their own reaction to the descriptions of poverty they had heard from others. Not giving to beggars is a sound principal wherever you go in India. There are levels of exploitation and downright badness in Indian society which are hard to grapple with. Orphanages open up at the beginning of the tourist season and close at the end of it, tour groups being shown the wonderful work which is being done with street children who are then back on the street.

Most tour operators have charities which their clients can donate to and we had contacts with an orphanage in Tamil Nadu which was struggling to establish itself. We visited and were overwhelmed by the love and care given to the children. They were all focussed on one thing, to get an education so that they could help their struggling families. Few of the children had lost both parents, most being taken to the home because their parents, or mostly parent, could not afford to keep them any longer. Here were children with disabilities, whose parents were alcoholic or disabled themselves, children whose previous lives had left them scarred and afraid, and we saw children who helped each other, were happy and fed, and who were totally aware of the advantages they were being offered. Krishnamurti and Elsie gave themselves totally to the care of their fifty-strong brood, both money and time and a great deal of love. We were humbled by the visit. There was not a lot we could do apart from try to divert some money their way, little enough for them confronted by a big new building project.
Their work is still going strong. Visit their web site at http://www.hapsi.co.uk/index.html
and of course send them money. You can be sure that every penny will go where it needs to, to the education and care of the children.

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